Visiting Aging Loved Ones This Holiday

Whether your aging loved ones live down the street or farther away, it’s important to bring the joys of the holiday season to them. Although life can get in the way of daily phone calls and weekly visits, communication should never drop off around the holidays.

If your loved one is in a skilled nursing facility, we give 4 reasons why you should make a point to visit!

1. Prevent Isolation & Loneliness

Unfortunately, many seniors suffer from the holiday blues when family and friends neglect to call or visit. Help your loved one avoid feelings of depression and improve their quality of life by visiting frequently during the season. Make sure holidays are not spent in isolation.

2. Check on Their Wellbeing

During a visit, you can check your loved one’s overall health and wellbeing. For seniors who live on their own, expired food and forgotten garbage can be signs of dementia.

If your loved one is in a nursing home, check for signs of neglect or a sudden change in personality that could reflect mistreatment. In these situations, act right away to prevent possible mistreatment.

3. Reminisce About Past Holidays

If your aging loved one has a negative attitude towards the holiday season, make a point to remind them of good family memories. When you visit, bring festive decorations and music, past holiday photos and offer to help with shopping or writing out Christmas cards.

4. Be a Good Listener

Rather than dominating the conversation with your own stresses – or sitting in silence – let your older family members do the talking! Listen to their feelings and, if they’re feeling down, make sure they know you love and appreciate them. Sometimes an open ear from a compassionate person can make all the difference.

No one should spend the holidays alone. Spread some good cheer and be sure to visit your aging loved ones this season. West Hartford Health & Rehabilitation Center is a community resource for your questions about senior living. To learn more, contact us today!